Adulting day Care

Adulting a term coined by the millenniums that merely describes the state of being an adult and how riveting it can be while the oxford dictionary defines it as the practice of behaving in a way that highlights a responsible adult. You see Adulting has you trying to juggle between your inner child and adult version of you. Imagine trying to decide between fixing a broken tap and acquiring that handbag on the same budget (sca judger) not forgetting school fees(still on that budget). It has you even questioning the point of working, why would anyone wake up early morn sleep deprived on cold raining day just to work, why can’t employers trust that we will do the work at our convenience after all we are responsible beings(you get my drift).

When l was growing up being an adult was cool, it was lit (do people still use these words) l do not know if its effects of adulating or Gen Zs are just confusing us with all these new terms. Anyway back to the story, l really looked forward to be an adult because l thought l get to eat what l want without counting calories and sugar intake , reappear home when need be but alas l revert home like am being chased by an wild animal (why you ask because…..ADULTING).

I was of the opinion that adulating meant l get to make decisions for myself but NO …government does that for you half the time(not that my thoughts are illegal, it’s just they The Powers that may be have not caught up to my brilliance).My friend always threatens to retire to a farm house in the bushes only problem is she too loves the soft life so she must ADULT a few more years.l on the other hand want to retire and relocate to a farm house with a beach somewhere with Mr as empty nesters because(water is my element sipping something and reading a book and getting served non-fattening food ,it’s pretty nice dream right,l can see you drooling).FOCUS on those year resolutions you made.

Bazalwane adulating has us starting fitness journeys and ingesting the very thing that made us begin the journey in the first place. Then the internal dialogue starts, then we console ourselves by calling it a cheat day (classic adult move).Ever wondered why all of a sudden food is making you gain weight, yet when you were a child gaining weight was the goal. Please do not tell me about metabolism what what stress of adulating alone should be making me lose weight very quickly (at least that’s how its making sense in my head).

Maybe we do need a playground so we relax and have time to reset this adulating thing and not think of what we doing right or wrong .So imagine Farmhouse with day care.